twiggyseyelashes:

Girls go with bad boys for short term fun. 

They go with good boys if they want something long term.

The problem with good boys is that they’re so predictable. We go for bad boys because they keep things free. So no, you don’t have to be a bad boy. You need to be creative and spontaneous. Show her you like her. Just saying things only goes so far. Give her flowers for no reason. Buy her chocolate when she’s on her period and laugh when she’s mean to you. Drop a cookie off to her room in the middle of the night just cuz. Make her smile. Give her random hugs and tell her dumb funny things. You don’t have to do drugs or sleep around. You just have to keep things new. Keep her on her toes. Text her that you can’t stop thinking about her. Tell her she’s beautiful. You have to do all this, but don’t overdo it. You have to keep your cool, give her space, make her WANT you. Be desirable. The thing about good guys is that theres no chase, they’re too eager. We all want that boy that makes you feel like a princess, but we also want the boy that will keep you working. 

So no, don’t become a bad boy. Stay good, because that has more benefits in the end.

Great post.

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